⚡ 74 This or That Questions
Quick-fire choices for friends, couples, kids and team icebreakers. No "both" allowed!
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How to play This or That
- Read out the two options, or show them on screen.
- Everyone answers instantly. No "both", no "depends".
- Anyone with a surprising answer has to explain it in one sentence.
Party twist: point to the left side of the room for "this" and the right for "that". Everyone moves, and you instantly see the group split. Online twist: post a pair as an Instagram story poll, or type 1 or 2 in a group chat.
😄 Fun This or That Questions
- Tea or Coffee?
- Mountains or Beach?
- Sunrise or Sunset?
- Cats or Dogs?
- Pizza or Biryani?
- Books or Movies?
- Summer or Winter?
- Call or Text?
- Sweet or Spicy?
- Early bird or Night owl?
- Cricket or Football?
- Netflix or YouTube?
- Chocolate or Vanilla?
- Rain or Sunshine?
- City life or Village life?
- Samosa or Pakora?
- Superman or Batman?
- Window seat or Aisle seat?
- Instagram or Snapchat?
- Old songs or New songs?
🤔 Deep This or That Questions
- Be famous or Be rich?
- Know the future or Change the past?
- Big party or Small gathering?
- Plan everything or Go with the flow?
- Be the smartest person in the room or Be the funniest?
- Travel the world or Have a dream home?
- Live without music or Live without movies?
- Have more time or Have more money?
- Read minds or Be invisible?
- One best friend or Many good friends?
- Work from home or Work from office?
- Be a great singer or Be a great dancer?
- Honest feedback or Kind feedback?
- Lead the team or Be the expert?
- Remember everything or Forget whatever you want?
💞 This or That for Couples
- Movie night in or Dinner out?
- Hugs or Kisses on the forehead?
- Long drive or Long walk?
- Surprise gifts or Planned gifts?
- Matching outfits or Totally different?
- Love letters or Voice notes?
- Breakfast in bed or Late-night snacks?
- Beach holiday or Hill station?
- Cook together or Order in?
- Big wedding or Small wedding?
- Romantic song or Funny meme?
- Plan the date or Be surprised?
🧒 This or That for Kids
- Lions or Tigers?
- Ice cream or Cake?
- Drawing or Colouring?
- Swings or Slides?
- Robots or Dinosaurs?
- Superpowers or Magic wand?
- Cartoons or Comics?
- Bicycle or Skates?
- Pancakes or Paratha?
- Rainbow or Fireworks?
- Teddy bear or Toy car?
- Hide and seek or Tag?
- Painting or Building blocks?
- Zoo or Water park?
- Pirates or Astronauts?
💼 This or That for Work & Icebreakers
- Morning meetings or Afternoon meetings?
- Email or Chat?
- To-do list app or Paper notebook?
- Laptop or Desktop?
- Quiet office or Background music?
- Big project or Lots of small tasks?
- Stand-up desk or Comfy chair?
- Team lunch or Solo lunch break?
- Present the idea or Write the report?
- Four-day week or Longer holidays?
- Coffee break or Walk break?
- Dark mode or Light mode?
Why This or That works so well
It's the easiest icebreaker there is. Every question takes two seconds, nobody can get it "wrong", and quick answers show real personality: who's a night owl, who'd pick biryani over pizza, who secretly prefers texting. It suits new classmates, office teams, first dates and family dinners.
Tips for hosts
- Start light. Open with food and fun pairs before moving to the deep list.
- Keep the pace fast. The game is at its best when it feels like rapid fire.
- Ask "why?" sometimes, but not every time, or it becomes an interview.
More party games: Would You Rather, Never Have I Ever, Two Truths and a Lie and Charades Ideas.